Sunday, September 27

5 Common Questions About Dating

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Even though everybody goes on the dates, some questions are always in the air and we never can be sure are we doing things right. We bring you the most common question about dating.

1. What to do on a first date?

This depends on your and your partner’s personality, some people would like to go to some quiet place so they can talk while others would like to go to the party. It also depends how old are you, it can’t be the same for someone who is 20 and 50 years old. In any way, it should be casual but not too much because it will give the impression that you did not plan it at all. If you want to do something unusual think well about what your date thinks about it. Being original will definitely bring you plus unless you totally miss what your partner likes.

2. How can I tell is my partner falling in love with me?

This one is never easy, but you should trust your instinct about this one and read the signs your partner is sending you. What kind of signs? Well does he wants to spend all of his free time with you? Do you catch him smiling at you for no reason? Does he do special stuff for you? Do your conversations last long? Do you always have something to talk about? If the answer is yes to the majority of these questions then we are positive that your partner is falling for you.

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3. How to know if enough time passed to consider us exclusive?

It is different for men and women. Women tend to bond faster, while men need more time. However, if even after two months you don’t know where you are standing, a direct question is the best way to find out.
If one of the partners wants to stay casual even after two months of dating, he or she is a waste of time if you are looking for a steady relationship that would eventually lead to something serious. No matter how cliché it sounds, the conversation is the best way for dealing with issues in the relationship. But like we said give your partner two months before you confront him on this.

4. When is the right time for the first sex?

In this day of age jumping in the sack after the first date became totally normal. But scientists who studied this suggest that longer you wait, the better. They studied the relationships of people who had sex on the first date and the ones that didn’t and it turns out that ones that waited had more stable and successful relationships. Also, it was found that older people tend to wait a little longer than youngsters because they realize the bad sides of sexual relationships that failed.

5. How to know should we break up?

You would not believe how much couples stay together even when both of them know that breaking up would be a better solution. But fear of staying alone, or simply habit of being with that person prolongs the relationship for too long. If you feel that your lives are going in opposite directions, or you feel like you have nothing in common anymore, and if you are not excited about the time you are spending together you should probably break up with your partner.

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