Your profile on a dating site is your first impression and that is why you get one chance to make it good because a person who is searching through the profiles will have a huge choice and a minute or so to determine if he or she would take you into consideration. In this article, we will try to give you a few tips and tricks on how to appear best you can for your potential date.
Adjectives are very important, but try your best to avoid vague ones, ‘cos they appear boring.
“Cool”, “Funny” and “Awesome” are not the words you should use on your profile, because you can say for yourself that you are cool or funny that is something that other persons can think about you or not. Instead of listing all of your hobbies try to tell the same thing embodied in the interesting story. Instead of saying that you love reading, cooking, playing sports, tell the story about a book you read or an anecdote about the dinner you were making.
In addition to describing you it will give you some opening themes for chatting. Never stretch the truth about yourself. Telling small lies that would be discovered later would make your partner asks what else you lied about. It shows your insecurity with certain issues and if your partner decided that he or she does not want to continue chatting or dating with you anymore it will end up as a massive time waist for both of you. So keep it straight.
Also, don’t overshare about you or the things in your life. Leave something for later, if you click with your date there will be enough time to share everything from your life. Especially avoid sadness on your profile about your last relationship and how you get hurt. And definitely don’t nag and complain about everything. Nobody likes negative people. Photographs are really important, not just how you look ok on them but everything else.
Surroundings, atmosphere, and details in your photo say a lot about you. What kind of photo you uploaded also says a lot, is it a plain portrait or is it you somewhere in nature with beautiful landscape, or are you in the club dancing. Do we even have to say that photographs of low resolution are big no, also bad focus photos or photos on which you cropped somebody out?
And lastly, ask someone who is a good friend to you to look to your profile and tells you what he or she thinks. Don’t be embarrassed, because if you are you are not on a good path, which usually means that you exaggerated in some direction. If you ask a truly good friend about their opinion you will get honest answers and a different view on the subject.